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We get dressed, have our cup of coffee and just overall feel wonderful about the day ahead of us. Jumping in our car, the train, or taxi, we hum to our favorite song and smile at everyone we meet.
And then it happens.
That one moment, person, or text that just wants to ruin our day.
Whether it be the rude guy on the train that stole your seat, the taxi cab driver who's driving like a moron, an ex-boyfriend or ex anything that decides 9:00am is the best time to resolve a conflict, or whatever else, don't let people or circumstances rob your joy.
Back when I was a teacher, I would always enter the mail-room and greet my co-workers with a cheery good morning and a smile. They would usually return the greeting and light conversation would ensue. That is until one day I said hello to a fellow teacher while passing her in the hall during lunch and do you know what her response was?
"Why are you always smiling?"
Umm, what?
I mean, who asks a question like that? Would she rather me walk around with a permanent frown plastered on my face?
There will always be that one person, situation, thing, or mishap that happens to try and steal your joy but you be ready for it by simply remind yourself . . .
Just keep smiling!
Happy Monday!
I try to tell myself often to just keep smiling but somedays it just doesn't work. I wish I had more people around me (I don't see ANYONE) during the day that were smiling!
ReplyDeleteThank You. We all need this reminder sometimes and your blog always provides that little bit of reminder (about whatever may be needed) for me.
ReplyDeleteAmanda Rose
http://sewmuchtosay.blogspot.com
Such a cool post! Thats so true though, any little thing can make us quickly unhappy, but life is too short- why not be happy?? why not make the best of your day, especially that we have a choice: do we choose to be happy or bitter and angry?
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Ugh, I hate when people try to bring down the mood. This happened to me before after I got a nice haircut and this coworker of mine said "What made you cut your hair short?" after I got many compliments from others. I thought it was very rude of her to say that, but it reminds me that there are just some people that cannot acceptable the joy I have for myself. Great post :)
ReplyDeleteXO Jojo
www.jojosecretfashiondiary.blogspot.com
Yes! I am with you. It really surprises me when people act like it's a crime to smile. I personally do it as much as possible and have learned not to let anyone steal my joy or smile! Great post Vonae! I hope you and baby are doing great!
ReplyDeleteXO Kelley
http://www.keepsittingpretty.blogspot.com
How rude that girl did that, but sometimes people don't like seeing other's happy even if it's just smiling. This post is so meaningful and sends a great message Vonae,
ReplyDeletexoDale
Man, some people just want to bring you down! I'll have to say that I let little things get to me too easily. That is one of my New Year's resolutions--to not get so bothered by things so easily! Definitely need to keep that smile on my face! Great post love!
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Giovanna
www.oliveandanarrow.com
Totally agree, and love this post! I feel that way in New York a lot - no one smiles, ever.
ReplyDeletexo everything-pretty.com
I ALWAYS SMILE :D :D :D :D <----see? :D
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I needed this, thank you! Can't let one person ruin your day! Great post, Vonae!
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Ashley
http://theleftfeelssoright.blogspot.com